June 25, 2013 – Oftentimes, we are afraid of trying new things, new ideas and new actions because we are afraid that we might fail.
Karamihan sa atin ay ayaw sumubok at kumilos dahil sa takot na matalo at lumagapak. Marami ang ayaw magbusiness o magnegosyo dahil takot malugi at mawalan ng puhunan at ipon.
Its the fear of losing that prevents us from moving forward. Akala natin na ang pagkatalo ay masama sa atin but it’s the other way around. Losing is not bad for us, it’s good for us because it make us stronger, wiser and compassionate.
Don’t be afraid of losing. It make us stronger because it shows our weaknesses and give us opportunity to improve and strengthen it.
Losing make us wiser because we realize our mistakes and gives us knowledge in experience.
Losing make us compassionate, for we experience what it feels like losing so that we may understand the feeling of others who suffer the same fate.
All of our actions have an equal and opposite risk. Kahit saan ka pumunta, there will always be a risk. There will always be a risk of losing but it should not prevent us from moving forward. Dont be afraid to take a risk. Don’t avoid a risk, just manage the risk. Binigyan tayo ng utak at talento upang resolbahin ang problema, hindi upang iwasan.
Sabi ni Robert Kiyosaki sa "Retire Rich, Retire Young", "Losers cannot afford to lose and often avoid losing at all cost. Losers keep losing and winners keep winning simply because winners know that losing is part of winning."
REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE A BORN WINNER, ACT ON IT.
(by Atty. Marlon P. Valderama – www.e-lawyersonline.com)
